This book is for every woman who's ever struggled with self-doubt, people-pleasing for feeling like she's never enough.
It's time to stop waiting for permission and become the woman you were meant to be.
“I wish I had read this book years ago. It’s changed how I see myself forever.”
The person you’ve been waiting for to change your life is you. Let's go!
From the international bestselling author of Raising Girls Who Like Themselves and Bringing Up Boys Who Like Themselves...
...a memoir for women.
(Because we should get to like ourselves too!)
"I’m in my sixties, and this book has made me finally realise I need to question my ingrained beliefs to change my perspective ON ME!"
"If you’ve ever struggled with self-doubt, people-pleasing, or feeling like you’re not enough, read this book. Then buy a copy for your best friend."
"This book is like a warm bath."
"I want to snuggle into bed and read this book over and over."
"You could have been writing about me. Thank you sincerely for sharing your story."
"I wish I had read this book years ago. It’s changed how I see myself forever."
This book is perfect for you if...
- You’ve spent your life trying to be a "good girl" but still feel not enough.
- You struggle with self-worth, people-pleasing, or setting boundaries.
- You’re done with toxic beliefs and ready to reclaim your confidence.
- You’ve faced childhood trauma, toxic relationships, or low self-esteem.
- You’re tired of chasing approval and want to value yourself.
- You believe in self-empowerment and want to help the next generation do the same.
- You love raw, relatable stories like Untamed and The Gifts of Imperfection.
Are you a Good Girl?
- When you meet someone, do you wonder, ‘Will they like me?’ before you think, ‘Will I like them?’
- If you disagree with someone, do you worry that that person will no longer like you?
- Would you rather lie to be nice than tell the truth and risk being disagreeable?
- If someone asks, ‘Do you want a cup of tea?’, do you find yourself saying something like, ‘Oh, no. Well, okay, but only if you’re having one’?
- If someone offers to pick your daughter up from school, do you say something like, ‘No, it’s okay. I wouldn’t want to inconvenience you. And look! The rain is starting to ease’?
- If someone offers you the last piece of cake, do you decline and tell them to save it for someone else?
Being a “Good Girl” isn't really about being good at all.
It's about being compliant and subservient and trying to measure up to some impossible ideal set up by someone else.
Join me in saying GOODBYE to our Good Girls and HELLO to our authentic selves. 💜💪
Once you understand why you’ve spent years feeling ‘not enough,’ you’ll finally be free to stop believing it. This book shows you how.
For years, women have been taught to play by the rules: be agreeable, selfless, and put everyone else first.
But what if those rules aren’t ladders to success but actually snakes?
What if breaking free from Good Girl conditioning is the key to living a life of confidence, self-worth, and true happiness?
What you’ll discover inside
✨ Raw and honest storytelling – Kasey Edwards shares her own journey of overcoming self-doubt, trauma, and the pressure to be ‘good enough.’
✨ A roadmap to learning to like yourself – Learn how to break free from toxic beliefs and embrace your true worth.
✨ Powerful mindset shifts – Redefine love, success, and self-acceptance on your own terms.
✨ Inspiration to change your life – This book will help you find the courage to stop settling and start thriving.
Book blurb
A Good Girl is acutely aware of everyone’s emotional state. Except her own.
She was praised for not being difficult like other girls.
She must never get too big for her boots and must always be grateful. So damn grateful.
She masks her own needs, dreams and fears so thoroughly that she loses herself.
Until one day her smile falters, her serenity cracks and a tiny, long-forgotten voice dares to whisper, 'What about me?'
And then all hell will break loose.
Bestselling author of Raising Girls Who Like Themselves Kasey Edwards has helped thousands of families raise kids to believe in themselves. She decides it’s time to apply her research and strategies to herself.
Her journey of learning to like herself unpicks the worth-crushing beliefs taught to girls.
But it’s not just Kasey’s story. It’s about all of us.
Raw, irreverent, and deeply relatable, Kasey dares to say what many women think but few say out loud.
This poignant memoir will confirm what you’ve long suspected — that you deserve more. And it will show you how to rediscover who you were always meant to be. Then you too can say, "Goodbye good girl, hello me."
A message from Kasey
Could Goodbye Good Girl, Hello Me be the permission slip you need?
Here’s what I know for sure after 17 years of researching self-worth (and actively cultivating my own!):
✅ If you’ve ever suspected you deserve more, you do.
✅ You cannot fill your bucket with other people’s dreams and expectations.
✅ Self-esteem isn’t fixed in childhood—it’s never too late to learn to like yourself.
✅ The person you’ve been waiting for to change your life is you.
✅ Every journey towards liking yourself starts with one decision: choosing to believe you’re worth it.
And that’s exactly why I wrote Goodbye Good Girl, Hello Me.
For too long, we’ve been conditioned to strive, please, and prove our worth—only to end up exhausted, wondering why we still don’t feel like we’re enough.
This book is my way of handing you the permission slip I once needed myself: to unlearn the expectations that don’t serve you, to stop waiting for external validation, and to finally step into the life you actually want.
I hope it makes your heart sing. 🌷
Join us in saying goodbye to your Good Girl...
